It is one thing to understand the mechanics of EMDR; however, it is entirely another to feel confident applying it when a session goes off-script.
Once you finish your Basic Training weekend, your head is spinning with protocols, and you leave with a heavy binder. You feel ready. But then, you sit down with a real client—someone with complex trauma, dissociation, or fierce protective parts—and suddenly, the standard protocol feels like it doesn’t fit.
You might find yourself thinking:
“Did I miss something in training?”
“Am I doing this wrong?”
“Why isn’t the SUDS dropping?”
If you feel this way, I want you to know: You aren’t doing it wrong. In reality, you just need a map for the territory you’re actually in.
The truth is, most of what I know about being effective in this work, I learned after Basic Training. Being a good EMDR therapist depends on your continued growth and development. Ultimately, it requires mentorship, not just a manual.
As a Consultant-in-Training (CIT), my goal is simple: to help you feel comfortable and confident in your clinical decisions so you can stop second-guessing every eye movement.
Here is what you can expect if we work together.
1. A Low-Stress, “Human-First” Space
I know how intimidating a consultation can be. Unfortunately, in this field, there is often a subtle pressure to present our “perfect” cases—the ones where the client processed a memory in one session and walked away cured.
However, that isn’t where the learning happens. We learn from the sessions that went off the rails, the moments we got triggered, and the clients who seem stuck in a loop.
My style is collaborative, not “expert-down.” I don’t believe in shaming therapists for not knowing an answer. Instead, I strive to create a consultation space where:
Questions are welcome: Even the “basic” ones you’re afraid to ask because you think you “should” know them by now.
Stuck points are normalized: We all get stuck. It’s part of the process.
Your expertise is honored: We recognize that you are the expert on your client and your relationship with them. My job is to support that relationship, not dictate it.
As a result, I want you to leave our sessions feeling like growth is achievable, rather than feeling overwhelmed by a list of things you “should” be doing differently.
2. An Attachment-Focused Lens
Admittedly, standard EMDR protocol works wonders for single-incident trauma (like a car accident). But let’s be real—most of the clients walking into our offices are dealing with much more than that. They are dealing with developmental wounds, relational trauma, and years of feeling unsafe.
Therefore, when you apply a rigid standard protocol to attachment trauma, you often hit a wall.
I offer an attachment-focused approach to EMDR. Specifically, if you are working with clients who have complex family dynamics, deep-seated “I am not enough” beliefs, or high anxiety, we will look at the case through this lens.
We will dig into:
Strong Conceptualization: We move beyond just picking a target. Furthermore, we look at the developmental roots of current symptoms to understand why the client is stuck.
Navigating Resistance: When a client blocks processing, it isn’t because they are “resistant.” It’s because a part of them is trying to stay safe. We learn to move through “blocking beliefs” and activation patterns with compassion rather than force.
Anticipatory Anxiety: How do you help clients who are terrified to even start processing? We work on strategies to lower the barrier to entry so the work feels safe.
3. Practical Application (Not Just Theory)
We have all been in trainings that were fascinating intellectually, but left us wondering, “Okay, but what do I actually say to my client at 2 PM on Tuesday?”
Theory is great, but you need tools. My focus is on clear, practical guidance.
We will break down:
The 8 Phases: How to apply them flexibly so you aren’t just reading a script like a robot. You will learn when to stick to the script and when to lean into your clinical intuition.
Resource Development: Going beyond the standard “Safe Place” or “Container.” For example, we will build resources that actually hold up during deep processing, specifically for clients with low windows of tolerance.
Next Steps: We end our consultation with concrete plans. You will leave the call knowing exactly what your next session looks like.
Who Am I?
I’m Jaymee Krauter. I’m an EMDRIA Certified EMDR Therapist and Consultant-in-Training based in Pennsylvania.
I specialize in EMDR therapy for attachment trauma and EMDR Intensives for fears, phobias, and professional development.
I built my practice on the belief that we have to “feel good on the inside” to truly thrive, and that applies to therapists, too. If we are stressed, burnt out, or feeling like impostors, we cannot be the anchor our clients need.
I offer professional development courses, groups, and consulting services for clinicians looking to improve their skills, feel more grounded in the room, or pursue EMDRIA Certification.
Ready to Build Your Confidence?
You don’t have to navigate these complex cases alone. Whether you are looking for hours toward certification or just need a safe space to staff a difficult case, I am here to help.
If you are interested in individual consultation or joining one of my upcoming groups, let’s connect.
To learn more about my experience and current groups, visit my Consultation Services Page.
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